10 Ways to Enjoy December Without Feeling Overwhelmed

When December rolls around, it’s easy to feel like you need the perfect Christmas—with Pinterest-worthy decorations, homemade cookies, and a perfectly tidy house. But here’s the thing: that’s not what the holiday season is about. If you don’t feel like going all out, don’t let that make you feel guilty. 

The magic of Christmas is in the moments you enjoy, not the perfection you chase. Instead of stressing over the small stuff, focus on simple, meaningful activities that will help you unwind in the run-up to Christmas.

Music has a magical way of boosting our mood, especially during the holiday season. To get ahead of holiday stress, create a festive playlist early in December that you can rely on throughout the month.

Fill it with your favorite holiday tunes, whether it’s upbeat pop songs, classic carols, or nostalgic melodies. Use it to set the tone for all your holiday tasks—whether you’re baking cookies, cleaning the house, or wrapping gifts. Even better, put your playlist on and let it lift your spirits while you run errands around town.

The right soundtrack can make everything feel a little brighter and more festive, helping you stay positive no matter how busy things get!

December often feels like it’s moving at lightning speed, with to-do lists growing by the minute. Slow things down by creating or buying an Advent calendar to give yourself something small to look forward to each day. For kids, Advent calendars are often filled with candy, but why not carry that childhood tradition into adulthood by filling yours with little things that bring you joy now? 

Instead of sweets, try adding mini self-care activities, like enjoying a hot cup of tea, reading a chapter of your favorite book, or taking 10 minutes to meditate. It’s a simple, nostalgic way to bring more peace and happiness into your daily routine during the hectic holiday season.

Tip: Create a mutual Advent calendar with your partner and fill it with small surprises to brighten each day of December together.

If you're lucky enough to have snow this season, take advantage of it by heading outside to build a snowman. This classic winter activity is not only fun but also a great way to unwind and reconnect with your playful side. Whether you’re building a traditional snowman with a carrot nose and a scarf or getting creative with your design, it’s a perfect opportunity to take a break from the holiday rush and enjoy the moment. It's a simple, creative way to let go of holiday stress, embrace the winter wonderland, and create lasting memories with your loved ones.

As the end of the year approaches and work deadlines pile up, the holiday hustle can feel overwhelming. When you need a break from the December chaos, step outside for a peaceful winter walk. Whether there’s snow or just chilly air, a stroll in nature helps calm your mind and recharge your energy. It’s a perfect way to hit the reset button amidst the stress of both the holiday season and the year-end rush.

Christmas markets can be a great way to soak up the festive atmosphere with seasonal treats, twinkling lights, and holiday music. However, if you find yourself in the middle of busy crowds, it can feel a bit overwhelming. To make it more enjoyable, try visiting during quieter times, like weekday mornings, so you can stroll through the stalls at a relaxed pace and truly embrace the holiday spirit.

While you’re there, you can pick up unique, handmade gifts for loved ones—supporting local artisans and ticking off some items on your holiday shopping list at the same time. It’s a win-win: you get to enjoy the magic of the market, find thoughtful gifts, and support small businesses, all in one festive outing! 

Need more gift inspiration? Consider spa or salon gift certificates!

Take a break from holiday errands and head outdoors for some classic winter activities. Whether you’re gliding across the local ice rink or speeding down a snowy hill on a sled, these activities are a joyful way to embrace the season. Ice skating, even if you’re wobbly, is a fun way to soak in the crisp winter air, while sledding brings out the carefree joy of being a kid again. Both are perfect for spending quality time with friends or family, letting go of stress, and enjoying the wintery fun.

One of the best ways to relieve holiday stress is by focusing on helping others. Giving back to your community can provide a sense of fulfillment and connection that lifts your spirits during the busy holiday season. 

There are plenty of ways to get involved, from volunteering at local shelters or food banks to participating in toy or clothing drives for those in need. You could also bring some holiday cheer to a retirement home by baking and delivering homemade treats—many elderly residents cherish the company and warmth that comes with a thoughtful visit. 

Whether you're organizing donations or simply sharing home-baked sweets, these acts of kindness remind you of the true spirit of the season while helping you destress in a meaningful way.

If you're looking to escape the usual holiday hustle, why not consider traveling abroad in December? Whether you dream of soaking up some sunshine by the sea or hitting the slopes for a skiing adventure in the mountains, a holiday getaway can be the perfect way to recharge.

For those seeking warmer weather, heading to a beach destination allows you to trade in the cold for sand and sunshine. On the flip side, if you love the idea of a winter wonderland, a trip to the mountains for skiing, snowboarding, or cozy nights by a fireplace is a great way to embrace the season. Taking a break from the usual holiday routines with a travel adventure offers the perfect blend of relaxation and excitement, leaving you refreshed for the new year that is fast approaching.

If big parties feel overwhelming, invite close friends or family over for a cozy evening with minimal effort. Choose between a relaxed movie marathon or a fun game night—both are perfect for enjoying the holiday season in a laid-back way.

For a movie night, settle into your comfiest pajamas, grab some popcorn, and enjoy holiday favorites like Home Alone or Love, Actually. If you’re in the mood for a touch of magic, Harry Potter can also add to the festive atmosphere, as many associate its wintry scenes with Christmas cheer. Add a hot chocolate station and scented candles for extra coziness. If a game night is more your style, prepare easy snacks and break out your favorite board games or holiday trivia.

You can even pair it with a Secret Santa gift exchange for extra fun. Whether you opt for movies or games, it’s an ideal way to relax, share laughs, and enjoy the company of loved ones without the stress of a big event.

Amidst the rush of December, it’s important to carve out time for yourself. Dedicate a day (or even just an afternoon) to self-care. Take a long bath, read a book you've been meaning to start or try a new holiday-themed recipe for fun or any other self-care activity. Light some candles, make your favorite tea, and simply relax.

By giving yourself this quiet time, you'll feel recharged and more capable of enjoying the holiday season without feeling burned out. For even more ideas on how to take care of yourself during this busy season, check out guide to self-care during Christmas. Remember, the holidays are just as much about taking care of yourself as they are about caring for others!

December doesn’t have to be a whirlwind of stress and perfection. By focusing on simple, joyful activities like a cozy movie night, a peaceful walk, or volunteering to give back to your community, you can bring back the true spirit of the holiday season. These moments will help you unwind, recharge, and make meaningful memories. 

Remember, the holiday season is about enjoying time with loved ones and creating experiences that bring happiness—not chasing the perfect Christmas. And when it's all over, here are some great tips to start the new year feeling refreshed.

Wishing you a very merry and peaceful December, filled with moments of joy, relaxation, and meaningful memories!